my favorite James Deen vid of allll time
Just start slow and firm with your hand around the shaft and slowly move up and down, concentrating some pressure on the head, right where the ridge is.
You can do the same thing then with your mouth, just make sure you cover your teeth with your lips!
Aside from that very basic rundown it’s so individual to each guy you have to try out different things. Like, my OH loves when I use a finger and kinda massage his frenulum (underside of the head/shaft meeting) while I’m gripping him. Also maybe try massaging his balls if you’re comfortable with it.
Little whispers in his ear of “you like that?” And “do you want it faster?” Are great ways of keeping it sexy while checking in and getting info on what he likes. :)